Reboot? Restart? You are probably wondering why I have suddenly started writing on technical stuff. Well no, nothing like that. I got a call in the evening and the person on the other side made me introspect. Conversation lasted for half an hour, can you believe, an absolute stranger calls you up one fine evening and you start looking within yourself. But it happened.
To begin with, since I started living with my parents since I turned 10, life hasn't been easy going for me, till now. You might react saying whose life is easy? Everyone has problems. Nobody showcases. I am saying Lets say my life had some unexpected transitions. From Konkani Medium primary school to English medium secondary. Comfort of grandma`s place to new environment of my parents place. New city. To idea of joining vocational training in Frankfinn Institute and then entering work life at the age of 19. Not everybody goes through all this. Do they?
Coming back to introspection. It had mainly been about whats been bothering me. The way she had walked away was completely unexpected. I had myself felt I did nothing wrong. I was only shown something that I wasn't aware of during introspection and it actually made sense. Somehow those words cleared the air I had between her and me. One more call and I had my smile back. Her voice subtle as her usual self. Few things said and i had my too much in my life. As shockingly she had stepped out, she entered back. Awesome surprise.
One thing though I tell you. One must learn to adjust for any relationship to go on. You cant control someone, you cant clap with one hand. Talk but listening is equally important. Express but also understand. Love doesn't happen again and again in the exact same way. Let your ego stand way aside. Soul mates are meant for support,care, nurture and most importantly affection. Someone you share every moment of your life with. Someone you accept with all their shortcomings, someone accepting you for yours. While Unconditional love is only seen in films. Love is something essential for us humans, like oxygen, like food. Our brain feeds on thoughts and love is a vital catalyst for those to be good.
About this pic, I was 13 at that time and dad had brought the very first digicam. a 6 megapixel Sony S600. One of the childhood memories. My first delight. For photography is my passion now. While it may be past 14th November in India, I want to wish people in the other parts of the world. A very happy children's day. A child is always in us says psychology. Let that child come out. Aakhir me dil toh baccha hai ji.
I cant express my happiness in words. Its like a dream come true. Happiness has no measurement. A new beginning has begun. One with reboot without restart. We let go of what held us back. Started afresh without going off totally. Staying positive and hoping for the best.
To begin with, since I started living with my parents since I turned 10, life hasn't been easy going for me, till now. You might react saying whose life is easy? Everyone has problems. Nobody showcases. I am saying Lets say my life had some unexpected transitions. From Konkani Medium primary school to English medium secondary. Comfort of grandma`s place to new environment of my parents place. New city. To idea of joining vocational training in Frankfinn Institute and then entering work life at the age of 19. Not everybody goes through all this. Do they?
Coming back to introspection. It had mainly been about whats been bothering me. The way she had walked away was completely unexpected. I had myself felt I did nothing wrong. I was only shown something that I wasn't aware of during introspection and it actually made sense. Somehow those words cleared the air I had between her and me. One more call and I had my smile back. Her voice subtle as her usual self. Few things said and i had my too much in my life. As shockingly she had stepped out, she entered back. Awesome surprise.
One thing though I tell you. One must learn to adjust for any relationship to go on. You cant control someone, you cant clap with one hand. Talk but listening is equally important. Express but also understand. Love doesn't happen again and again in the exact same way. Let your ego stand way aside. Soul mates are meant for support,care, nurture and most importantly affection. Someone you share every moment of your life with. Someone you accept with all their shortcomings, someone accepting you for yours. While Unconditional love is only seen in films. Love is something essential for us humans, like oxygen, like food. Our brain feeds on thoughts and love is a vital catalyst for those to be good.
About this pic, I was 13 at that time and dad had brought the very first digicam. a 6 megapixel Sony S600. One of the childhood memories. My first delight. For photography is my passion now. While it may be past 14th November in India, I want to wish people in the other parts of the world. A very happy children's day. A child is always in us says psychology. Let that child come out. Aakhir me dil toh baccha hai ji.
I cant express my happiness in words. Its like a dream come true. Happiness has no measurement. A new beginning has begun. One with reboot without restart. We let go of what held us back. Started afresh without going off totally. Staying positive and hoping for the best.
Koi bigaadta hai kuch,
Toh banata bhi hai.
Kabhi aansu tohfe me deta hai,
Toh hasi ki chuskiyan bhi pilata hai.
Zindagi hai tere mere naam ki ab.
Saath rehna hai sada, dekhte hai koi kya bigaad paata hai.
Toh banata bhi hai.
Kabhi aansu tohfe me deta hai,
Toh hasi ki chuskiyan bhi pilata hai.
Zindagi hai tere mere naam ki ab.
Saath rehna hai sada, dekhte hai koi kya bigaad paata hai.
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